‘My Spouse Decides’ and Other Stakeholder Objection Scripts

“I need to talk to my spouse first.” If you sell coaching, you’ve heard a version of this on nearly every call. So have the people who hear “let me run it by my business partner” or “I have to check with my accountant.” Most coaches react in one of two losing ways: they cave and say “of course, take your time” (the deal quietly dies), or they push (the prospect feels cornered and the deal dies louder).

This prompt fixes spouse objection sales coaching the honest way. You give the AI the offer, the exact words you heard, and what you suspect the real concern is, and it returns a calm playbook: a one-sentence diagnosis, a word-for-word script, a separate script for when the spouse is just a polite excuse, and a follow-up message for when they go quiet. By the end of this page you’ll also understand why it works, so you can adapt it to any third-party objection you ever hear.

When to use this

• A prospect ends a strong call with “I need to talk to my partner / spouse / business partner.”
• You can’t tell if the third party is a genuine decision-maker or a soft way to say no.
• You keep losing deals in the gap between “this sounds great” and the signed agreement.
• You want a non-pushy follow-up message instead of the dreaded “just bumping this to the top of your inbox.”
• You’re training a setter or a new coach and want a repeatable, ethical script.

The prompt

Copy this whole block into ChatGPT, Claude, or Gemini:

You are a sales coach who specializes in consultative, no-pressure enrollment conversations for coaches. You believe a stalled deal is usually a sign of an unsurfaced concern, not a lost sale. Your job is to write scripts that surface the truth and respect the prospect, never scripts that corner or manipulate them.

Before writing, ask me up to 3 clarifying questions if anything below is unclear. Otherwise, proceed.

CONTEXT
- What I sell: {{OFFER}}
- My niche: {{NICHE}}
- The exact objection I heard: {{OBJECTION}}
- The third party named: {{STAKEHOLDER}}
- What I suspect the real concern is: {{REAL_CONCERN}}
- My tone: {{TONE}}

TASK
Write a stakeholder-objection playbook with these four parts:
1. DIAGNOSIS (2-3 sentences): What this objection usually means. Distinguish a genuine shared-decision situation from a polite brush-off, and tell me how to tell them apart in the moment.
2. THE SCRIPT: A word-for-word response I can say next, written the way people actually talk. It must (a) validate the prospect, (b) gently confirm whether the {{STAKEHOLDER}} is a real decision-maker or a stall, and (c) offer a concrete next step (e.g. a 3-way call, or sending a one-page summary the prospect can share).
3. IF IT'S A STALL: A separate short script for when the {{STAKEHOLDER}} is clearly a polite excuse, that invites the real concern about {{REAL_CONCERN}} without making them defensive.
4. THE FOLLOW-UP MESSAGE: A short, warm message I can text or email if they go quiet, that keeps the door open and is easy to reply to.

CONSTRAINTS
- No pressure tactics, false scarcity, guilt, or 'feel-felt-found' clichés.
- Plain spoken English. No jargon, no buzzwords, no 'in today's fast-paced world'.
- Keep every spoken script under 80 words so it sounds natural out loud.
- Do not invent fake testimonials, statistics, or client results.

After the playbook, give me 2 alternative one-line openers for the main script that I can A/B test.

How to customize it

Replace the six {{VARIABLES}} before you send it:

The single most important field is {{REAL_CONCERN}}. Your honest hunch about what’s really going on is what turns a generic script into one that lands.

See it in action (full example)

Here is the exact prompt, filled in for a business coach who just got the spouse objection on a $6,000 package. This is the whole input, nothing hidden:

You are a sales coach who specializes in consultative, no-pressure enrollment conversations for coaches. You believe a stalled deal is usually a sign of an unsurfaced concern, not a lost sale. Your job is to write scripts that surface the truth and respect the prospect, never scripts that corner or manipulate them.

Before writing, ask me up to 3 clarifying questions if anything below is unclear. Otherwise, proceed.

CONTEXT
- What I sell: a 6-month 1:1 business coaching package at $6,000
- My niche: business coaching for service-based freelancers
- The exact objection I heard: I need to talk to my wife before I commit to anything this size
- The third party named: spouse
- What I suspect the real concern is: the price feels risky and they're not sure it'll pay off
- My tone: warm, calm, zero pressure

TASK
Write a stakeholder-objection playbook with these four parts:
1. DIAGNOSIS (2-3 sentences): What this objection usually means. Distinguish a genuine shared-decision situation from a polite brush-off, and tell me how to tell them apart in the moment.
2. THE SCRIPT: A word-for-word response I can say next, written the way people actually talk. It must (a) validate the prospect, (b) gently confirm whether the spouse is a real decision-maker or a stall, and (c) offer a concrete next step (e.g. a 3-way call, or sending a one-page summary the prospect can share).
3. IF IT'S A STALL: A separate short script for when the spouse is clearly a polite excuse, that invites the real concern about the price feeling risky without making them defensive.
4. THE FOLLOW-UP MESSAGE: A short, warm message I can text or email if they go quiet, that keeps the door open and is easy to reply to.

CONSTRAINTS
- No pressure tactics, false scarcity, guilt, or 'feel-felt-found' clichés.
- Plain spoken English. No jargon, no buzzwords, no 'in today's fast-paced world'.
- Keep every spoken script under 80 words so it sounds natural out loud.
- Do not invent fake testimonials, statistics, or client results.

After the playbook, give me 2 alternative one-line openers for the main script that I can A/B test.

And here is the complete output the model returns:

1. DIAGNOSIS

“I need to talk to my spouse” means one of two things: it’s a real shared financial decision, or it’s the most socially acceptable way to say “I’m not sure.” You tell them apart by listening to the energy. A genuine joint decision sounds specific and forward-moving (“we always decide big spends together, can I call you Thursday?”). A stall sounds vague and backward-moving (“yeah, I’ll run it by her and let you know”). When in doubt, ask one calm question and the answer reveals which one it is.

2. THE SCRIPT

“That makes total sense, a decision like this should include the people it affects. Can I ask, when the two of you talk, what do you think she’ll want to know? Because I’d hate for you to be the only one in the room with the full picture. If it’s useful, I can send you a one-page summary you can share, or we could set up a quick 15-minute call with all three of us. Which feels easier?”

3. IF IT’S A STALL

“Totally fair, take the time you need. Can I be honest, though? Sometimes when people want to think it over, it’s really about the investment more than the timing. If $6,000 feels like a lot for an unknown return, that’s completely reasonable, and I’d rather talk about it openly than have you walk away unsure. Is that part of what’s on your mind?”

4. THE FOLLOW-UP MESSAGE

“Hey [Name], no pressure at all, just keeping my promise to follow up. Did you and your wife get a chance to talk it through? Happy to answer anything that came up, or send that one-pager. Totally fine either way, just let me know where your head’s at.”

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2 alternative one-line openers for the main script: 1. “Love that, who else is part of this decision so I can make sure you both have what you need?” 2. “Of course, what’s the one thing she’ll probably ask you that you’d want a good answer to?”

That is usable on your next call with a 10-second tweak to sound like you.

Why this works

Four LLM principles are doing the work here. Learn them and your prompts get sharper every time:

1. Role priming with a point of view. The opening line doesn’t just say “you are a sales coach.” It gives the model a belief (“a stalled deal is usually an unsurfaced concern, not a lost sale”) and a boundary (“never scripts that corner or manipulate”). A role with values pulls the model toward consultative language and away from the manipulative sales clichés that flood the internet. Assign a role, then tell it what it stands for.
2. Specificity in, specificity out. The model can only be as concrete as you are. “Handle objections” gives you a generic lecture. Giving it the exact words you heard, the price, and your honest guess at the real concern ({{REAL_CONCERN}}) is what produces a script that names the $6,000 and the fear underneath it. The output quality is capped by the detail of your input.
3. Constraints are quality control. The “under 80 words,” “no false scarcity or guilt,” and “no feel-felt-found clichés” lines aren’t decoration. Each one removes a specific failure mode that a generic AI sales prompt would fall into. Telling the model what not to do is as powerful as telling it what to do.
4. Clarifying questions beat guessing. The “ask up to 3 clarifying questions first” line lets the model fill gaps by asking rather than inventing. If it doesn’t know whether you’ve already sent pricing or whether the spouse has been on a call, it can ask, instead of writing a script built on a wrong assumption. This single line is the biggest fix for generic AI output.

Do this now

1. Copy the prompt above into ChatGPT or Claude.
2. Replace the six variables. Be brutally honest in {{OBJECTION}} (their exact words) and {{REAL_CONCERN}} (your real hunch).
3. Send it. If it asks clarifying questions, answer them honestly.
4. Read the main script out loud once, swap two words so it sounds like you, and use it on your next call.

Pro tips

• Run it per objection, not once. Build a small library: one run for “talk to my spouse,” one for “check with my business partner,” one for “run it past my accountant.” The diagnosis differs for each.
• Feed it the real words. Paste the prospect’s exact sentence into {{OBJECTION}}. The model mirrors phrasing, and “anything this size” tells it the price is the real friction.
• Ask for the 3-way-call version. Add “give me a script for how to invite the spouse onto a short call” as a follow-up message. A joint call closes far more shared-decision deals than a forwarded PDF.
• Pressure-test your own ethics. If a script ever makes you wince, tell the model “this feels pushy, make it more honest.” The no-pressure framing in the role makes it good at this.

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